Ryan,
"(…) You are using a free theme that I spent several hundred hours developing (have you made a donation to show your appreciation by chance?) (…)"
No, I haven't. The theme is giving me grief, and I'm not the only one. On the BANS forum I have been discussing the "delayed CSS issue" with two others who experience it. One bloke wrote:
"2 sites, both using Flex2, one shows unformatted (No CSS), then goes to a normal screen; the other comes up normal".
The second bloke informed us:
"I have the exact same problem. I keep hoping people won't back out of my site before the CSS takes effect. It doesn't happen every time, but often. It also takes waaaay too long to make changes in the settings. The different options are great, as is the fact that it's free, but those are a couple of very annoying issues."
That's three people having an identical problem, which you choose not to address because the theme is free. Well… fair enough… but as a result all three have reversed their original decision to buy the paid FlexSqueeze theme. Please tell me who's the "winner" here. Can't be you, because you just "un-supported" yourself out of US$389.97. Can't be us three either, because we don't trust and won't buy the paid version on account of having been left with a wonky freebie.
Matey, with the Flexibility/FlexSqueeze combination you own a winning team, and using Flexibility as a "trial version" for FlexSqueeze makes a lot of sense, benefiting you even more if you approach genuine problems with the trial version in a serious way. With all the "stuff" on the market nowadays, support is becoming increasingly important. So is taking a complaint seriously, especially when it comes from a "freebie" customer who had the credit card in his hand in order to buy the paid version. I still have that credit card ready, by the way. Whether or not I use it to buy FlexSqueeze, is up to you.
Be well!
Jaap Verduijn.